If you’re in NYC on October 1st and 2nd of 2022 don’t miss out on the free Sex Expo. Romantic Depot’s own educator will be teaching “Squirtshop: The Art of G-Spotting and Female Ejaculation” so you can learn all about anatomy and the process of bringing on ejaculation, whether that be during sex or masturbation. Carly S. will cover some of the best positions, toys, and techniques to maximize the big “O” and beyond. Maybe you’ve squirted in the past, but now you’re unable to duplicate the results, or you’re on the hunt to experience the sensation for the first time. Don’t sleep on the G-spot because you might just find the stimulation to be a game changer in the bedroom. Historically, there’s been a lot of mystery and confusion surrounding the G-spot. Does it actually exist? Is it really that powerful? How do you find it? Read on to learn more.

The Basics of Ejaculation

1. Make sure you’re relaxed and don’t put pressure on yourself!
2. Drink plenty of water and make sure you’re hydrated
3. Explore you’re body and figure out exactly where your G-spot is and what kind of stimulation you like best
4. Explore with firm and curved sex toys
5. Be patient and take your time

For people with vaginas, the G-spot is less one spot in particular and more a region of the body. When you hear G-spot, most people think that it’s one exact spot on their body like their nose, but that’s not accurate. Think of it more as the G-zone, which is simply an area of tissue that some people find pleasurable, while others don’t. That pleasure has more to do with the pressure being put on the clitoral bulbs and the Skene’s glands (two glands located on either side of the urethra which is thought to be responsible for vaginal secretions during arousal) rather than an entirely separate structure.

So Where Should You Look?

When stimulating a G-spot, you’re looking for a patch of spongy tissue near the front of the upper vaginal wall, a few inches deep, that swells and becomes more sensitive when you’re turned on. Stimulating the G-spot can not only feel great but can even be felt in the clitoris since the internal clitoris and G-spot are so physically close. You can use the pads of your fingers, curling upward with firm pressure, or your choice of insertable G-spot vibrators and sex toys: dual-stimulation toys,  metal toys, glass toys, and toys that thrust.

What should you look for when shopping for G-spot sex toys? 

The first thing to consider is what you like with your other sex toys. Do you like something really firm or more squishy? How much pressure you enjoy; can help determine how deep of a curve you want. If you want the toy to vibrate or not? Do you want dual stimulation, like a rabbit that will also put pressure on your clitoris? How big do you want your toy to be? Once you answer these questions for yourself, you can narrow the search for the perfect sex toy for you. Then specifically for a good sex toy to stimulate the G-spot you want to take these specifications into consideration.

Curved- a curved sex toy is best for the G-spot; this is one of the most important features to look for in a toy.

Bulbous tip- if you don’t love a curved shaft, a bulbed tip on a vibrator is a great option for stimulating the G-spot.

Long enough to reach the G-spot- your sex toy needs to be long enough that it can comfortably reach the G-spot since it’s typically 2-3 inches deep in the body

Do you want clit stimulation?- some vibrators offer dual stimulation, meaning there is a vibrating shaft that stimulates the G-spot and an external part that stimulates the clit

Top Sex Toy Options

Temptasia Trixie Thrusting Dildo

Temptasia Trixie Thrusting Dildo from Blush Novelties is a thrusting curved option. This beautiful toy has 3 powerful thrusting speeds, 1.25 inches thrusting length, and its smooth curved shaft makes it ideal for G-Spot stimulation! Trixie has a long, ergonomic handle for optimal accessibility and comfort during play and a smooth, sleek shaft for those who aren’t looking for texture.

Viben Alluring Silicone Rechargeable Come Hither Motion G-Spot Dual Motor Rabbit

Alluring is a unique internal G-spot massager with a Come-Hither motion that presses against the G-spot in a smooth motion that will drive the G-spot into bliss. The smooth Silicone, vibrating shaft also includes an enhancing pleasure ridge texture. The rabbit bends and moves with your body while its ears flutter stimulating your clit. Simple, Easy to use push button control, allowing for independent command of the shaft and the external stimulator.

Viben Hypnotic Silicone Rechargeable Thrusting Dual Motor Rabbit

This triple-threat sex toy that’s available in pink or black includes a vibrating, thrusting shaft to massage the G-spot, along with an external rabbit extension that both vibrates and swings to rub against the clit. Each function can work independently and the memory chip resumes the last function used. Features: 10 powerful functions. 10 Intense vibration patterns. 7 thrusting speeds.

Viben Razzle Thumping G-spot Rabbit

Viben Razzle Thumping G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator is equipped with three powerful motors, this thumping rabbit intensely vibrates and pulsates against the G-Spot while the soft, flexible rabbit ears stimulate the clitoris. Each function can work independently or together. 10 Vibration Patterns. 3 Thumping Modes.

Uncorked Malbec Red Vibrator

Uncorked Malbec from California Exotic Novelties knows just what you need after a long day. This very satisfying massager has a great curve to stimulate the G-spot and rippled texture tip for enhanced pleasurable sensations. The plush silicone vibrator includes 10 speeds of vibrations delivering powerful stimulation. With a smooth shape and supple surface, you will be able to indulge in thrilling vibrations from any angle your desire.

Daze 7 inches Vibrating Silicone Dildo

Daze 7 inches Vibrating Silicone Dildo from Sportsheets Merge Collection is pleasure and versatility combined. With 5 rumbly speeds and a flared base, Daze can be used with O Ring and underwear style harnesses and used externally and internally as a vibrator for partner and solo play. The ample curvature, nonrealistic shaft, and tip make G-Spot stimulation easy and the soft silicone creates an ultra-smooth sensation making penetration smoother.

Vive Taka 

Vive Taka from Shots Toys available in black or purple is one of the most unique and powerful vibrators available thanks to its Three 10-function New Generation F1 motors. All three motors can be independently controlled so you can customize your play. One 10-function NG F1 vibrating motor for your G-Spot, One innovative automatic inflatable motor, and one 10-function vibrating motor for clitoral stimulation, this vibrator has it all. The Vive Taka can please just about anyone because the automatic inflatable vibrating G-Spot stimulator together with a vibrating external clitoral stimulation offer 100 possible unique setting combinations. The inflating bulb will put delicious pressure on the G-spot for maximum pleasure. When you are getting close to climax, just one touch of the special function climax button will immediately bring all the motors to full power/speed.