Best Toys and Techniques for Shower and Bath Masturbation
Wetter is better
If you’ve ever tried to have sex in the water you know that water itself washes away the body’s natural lubrication, so having your own lube on hand can help things stay wet. Silicone-based lube is the best for sex in the water but most toys can’t be used with silicone lube. Only glass, metal, and plastic will be compatible and safe to use with silicone, so using a hybrid is a good compromise. Hybrids are mostly water-based but with a small amount of silicone to keep them slippery, but not enough to degrade toys. The most important part is that you’re using something that is specifically a lubricant because you’re planning ahead and bringing it into the bathroom with you. No one should ever use soap, shampoo, or anything else as a lubricant!
The Shower Head Started It All
- Hold the stream directly onto the clit or frenulum
- Move the showerhead in a circular motion, up and down, or side-to-side.
- Experiment with different positions and figure out what works best for you.
Suction Cup Dream Location
The Shower is the ideal place for your suction cup toys. Tile is one of the easiest surfaces to use to suction a toy with, and most bathrooms have tile. Then you have the option of the shower wall or the side of the bathtub. Some really fun options for the shower are the Evolved Gender X color-changing options. Available in 8.5” and 5”. Perhaps a vibrating fantasy colored, but representational shape option is for you? Then the Naughty Bits Ombre Hombre Vibrating dildo or Stardust Milky Way Vibrating Dildo with their strong suction cup base makes a great shower or bath option.
Waterproof Vibes
Not only do you want a vibrator that’s waterproof so you have the option of the bath or the shower, but you want it to be something that’s also easy to grip in the water. Sex toys with longer handles or looped handles will be easier to hold especially in the water. So sex toys like the Satisfyer Pro 2, Dame Arc, Any of the Satisfyer Vibes, Hype Massager, or the Swan Wand are ideal. They each have an easy-to-grip handle, are waterproof, and have multi-function. If you prefer smaller vibes for the water then finger vibes are going to be the best bet to hold onto without dropping them. The Satisfyer Teaser securely loops onto your finger, or pinch the Starstruck Fantasy between your fingers for a secure grip. Whichever you prefer and is more comfortable for you. Or the Dame Pom is an ergonomic vibe that fits in the palm of your hand and can wrap around any erogenous zone comfortably. Air pulse vibes like the Satisfyer Pro 2 will also feel even more intense in the water, so if you’re looking to supercharge your experience the bathtub is it.
If grinding is more your thing then the Lust Remote Control Dual Rider might be the perfect toy for you. Stick it to the side of the tub or the bottom so you can sit on it and take the ride of your life. It includes 2 motors and a subtle texture to enjoy.
Stroke it right
For vibrating options, a longer handle will still be a helpful option. Gender X The Embrace is a vibrating wand with two silicone wings to surround a penis and be able to stroke it. Or for a more traditional stroker feel the Gender X Barrel of Fun is a squishy textured vibrating open-ended sleeve that is completely submersible.
Backdoor exploration time
When you’re relaxed in the bath or shower is a truly great time to explore your backdoor. The Zero Tolerance Booty Bounce Butt Plug, Power Gem Vibrating Petite Crystal Probe, Mighty Mini Butt Plug, and the Sensuelle Mini Butt Plug are all classic teardrop-shaped rechargeable butt plugs. The bath or shower is the ideal place to explore the backdoor because you’re typically already relaxed while in the shower, especially the bath. Then in the bath you can lay on your side and lift one leg, giving you great access.
Get clean to get dirty
