Best Toys for Mutual Masturbation
It’s masturbation May, and although typically masturbation usually means a solo activity there are ways to incorporate your partner and spice things up. Mutual masturbation for couples can be a great way to build intimacy, explore your sexuality or kinks, and find out what works for both of you. Most folks will use sex toys during masturbation, so of course, during mutual masturbation, you should bring your toys so your partner can see how you enjoy touching yourself. That can be easier said than done! If you’ve never touched yourself in front of a partner it can be incredibly nerve-wracking. Fortunately, there isn’t much of a difference between solo masturbation and mutual masturbation. Keep in mind, that you could be using most of the toys you masturbate with during partnered play, too!
So why bring sex toys into the mix? They’re tools that can provide different sensations and options, so why wouldn’t you want to incorporate that into your sexual repertoire? Plus a lot of folks need specific types of stimulation to reach orgasm, especially clit owners, and sex toys can provide that during solo or partnered play. Using toys during mutual masturbation is also a great way to get off without the risk of pregnancy or STIs. It’s also a really visually appealing way to put o a show for your partner and take on the role of either exhibition or voyeur. In the process of watching or putting on a show for your lover, you can both showcase exactly how you like to be touched, and pay attention to what your partner is doing to learn their preferences for stimulation.
Bring your hand game to the next level
It’s about time you looked past just your hand. Adding a stroker to your hand stimulation is the easiest way to take it to the next level. Everyone deserves to experience new sensations. A good place to start to test the waters is Tenga Eggs. Whatever the design is on the package, is the texture of the egg. They’re one-time use stretchy and come with a packet of lube so they’re also great for travel since they’re all in one. If you like the idea of the Tenga Eggs but want something you can keep and wash and reuse, the Jack-It Duo is a great option since it’s a thicker sleeve it’ll last for more uses.
For sleeves with more unique and interesting features other than just texture, the Tenga Spinner is a great place to start. The Spinners have a coil that twists as you stroke, adding extra sensations with each stroke of your hand. Vibration can feel good for folks of all anatomy configurations, and the VeDo Grip is a great stroker with vibration to try out. If you’d like to control the suction and pressure by squeezing the sides of the stroker then the Tenga Flip series is the best choice to make and vibrating versions of the flip are available.
If visual is most important to you and a realistic stroker is what you after, Porn star molded strokers are always a popular choice, but there are many realistic options. It all comes down to a personal preference.
Good Vibes Only
So many dildos, so little time.
The easiest way to use a dildo hands-free, especially if you want to put on a show for your partner would be to get a dildo with a suction cup so you can secure it to a smooth surface like a bathtub, shower, or some chairs. Then you have to decide if you want a realistic-looking toy or non-realistic dildo. If you’re someone who needs a little extra reach on your toy then considers a double dildo, then you can use the excess length as a handle to get a better grip on the toy. Then it comes down to a personal preference for size and shape. The more curved a toy is, the more directly targeting the G or P spot it’ll be.
The Backdoor opens many doors
If you have a prostate then stimulating it can open brand new doors of pleasure that you didn’t even know possible. Many folks can experience full-body and multiple orgasms from stimulating the prostate. The Viceroy Probe is perfect for beginners because it’s thin but curved to still engage the prostate. Even if you’re not a prostate owner, the backdoor has a ton of nerve endings that feels good to stimulate. The Anal Adventures vibra slim plug is perfect for anyone just starting out who also wants to see if vibration feels good. Or you can intensify your orgasm with anal beads like the performance anal beads. When you pull anal beads out during orgasm it intensifies your orgasmic muscle contractions and strengths them, making your orgasm feel even more intense!
Wetter is better
No matter how wet with your own lubrication you are, incorporating a lubricant will enhance your masturbation experience. Intimate Earth Hydra has a similar texture to the body’s natural lubrication, so it feels really natural when you incorporate it into your solo or partner play. Lubricant just keeps everything moist and when things are wet it simply feels better.
Go forth and explore!
Masturbation can often seem one-dimensional, but it’s whatever you make it, so make it as robust and filled with versatile options as you want. There are plenty of options to choose from to enhance your pleasure during masturbation, from lube to strokers to anal toys and beyond. Sex toys open folks up to a range of sensations that you just can’t experience with human hands. It’s just a great way to figure out what you like.
