Blowjob Tips for Steak & BJ Day (3/14)
There truly is a holiday for everyone! Did you know that March 14 is Steak & BJ Day? Yep, it’s a thing, and it’s next Tuesday!
This is a holiday celebrated one month after Valentine’s Day. It was founded because Valentine’s Day is traditionally geared towards women – dinner, flowers, you know the drill.
With that said, it is only fair that there is an equivalent holiday to treat the dudes to something just as sweet! There are no cards, flowers, or candy required! (Well, unless you’d like to sweeten up the deal with some oral sex popping candy.)
Partners need only to bestow their man with a steak and a BJ. (Not necessarily in that order.)
You can find a steak recipe online anywhere! But if you’re wondering how to give a mind-blowing blowjob, you’ve come to the right place.
Giving head is all about practice, but also learning some key basics. And whether you’re giving a sexy blowjob as foreplay or for the main act, oral sex is a great way to intimately connect with your partner.
10 Blowjob Tips to Enhance Your Oral Game
1: Make eye contact
Look up and gaze into his eyes from time to time. Lick the tip in circles, or up and down the shaft, and make eye contact.
2: Suck it up!
For circumcised penises, apply a lot of suction and focus on the edges of the glans. If he is uncut, be gentle. The nerve endings are much more sensitive. Mix between suction and licking and focus in on the frenulum.
3: Just say no to nibbling!
Under no circumstances should his penis touch your teeth! Don’t nibble or glide teeth on the shaft, the tip, the balls…just don’t do it! Instead, use a pair of Gum Job candy teeth covers and gum job it up!
4: Bubble up
Pop open a cold, fizzy La Croix! Take a small sip, then carefully take him in your mouth, press your tongue up against that sensitive spot right below the head, and let the bubbles tickle him for a moment before you swallow your drink with him still in your mouth. The bubbles will add sensation.
5: Just the tip…and then some
Play with the tip with your mouth and tongue for about 10 seconds. Then surprise him by taking his whole shaft in your mouth, deep throat style.
6: Gag on it
Many men think that gagging is really sexy! Aside from that, using the back of your throat during oral is top-tier! (But also, gagging will get your saliva flowing if you’re feeling a little parched!)
7: …Or don’t gag on it
If you have a hypersensitive gag reflex, point your thumb down in the palm of your hand. Wrap the rest of your fingers around the thumb. squeeze/press down your thumb with the rest of your fingers. This can stop you from gagging if you start to get…choked up.
8: Pucker power
It has been said that sucking or sipping on pickles, limes or lemons can stimulate the salivary glands and as a result, will produce more saliva than usual. We always suggest using flavored lube as a fun way to enhance oral sex, but if you’re in a pinch, get your pickle pucker on!
9: Go deep
Like we said, practice makes perfect! This is definitely true for oral sex techniques. We highly recommend a deep throat numbing spray to help numb the back of the throat so you can take it as deep as you feel comfortable with!
10: Invest in your technique!
There are so many different ways to give good oral sex — like licking, sucking, nibbling, kissing, and even biting — and people don’t always realize how each of these feels. The more you understand how the different techniques feel to your partner, the better off you’ll be at knowing when to do what. Bonus tip: ask them what feels good to them! Ask them what they want you to do (consensually).
Lastly, have fun with it! The more you enjoy it, the more your partner will enjoy it. Blowjob confidence doesn’t always happen overnight. If you’re feeling insecure, talk to your partner ahead of time about what they like and don’t like and discuss what you’re most comfortable with. After, find a comfortable position, take a deep breath, and enjoy the power of pleasing your partner with oral.
